What an adventure 2018 was. A year that completely kicked my ass, broke me down, but the rebuild is making me stronger than I would have been without it. February of 2018 we moved into our dream facility where we could train year-round, have horses in training and boarding for students and live on the property. We were terrified for the move, but the fear was overpowered by our drive and our determination to make it work and create something bigger than ourselves. I’m so grateful for the amazing barn family we’ve had through the process, I truly believe our success is because of you all.
Trying to complete my bachelors degree as a full time student, maintaining the fitness and training of our own horses on top of training horses, giving lessons, distributing hay, cleaning up manure, the usual last minute things required to maintain a farm… we’ve definitely had our struggles.
There were so many times we felt like we were running on empty, like we weren’t going to make it, but at the end of every month we take a deep breath and realize we made it.
My greatest treasure from 2018 is the amazing people we’ve met and the clients, friends and family that have supported our business and made living this lifestyle possible. So many people brought our vision for helping horses and humans come to life, we’ve even been blessed to have a documentary made about DuFour Dynamics that will be coming out in 2019. There have been countless hours of planning and capturing footage. I am so grateful for this experience and the time David has poured into this project.
I could go on and on about the progress our students have made this year and how grateful I feel to be a part of their journey. So many ‘firsts’ for some students, and the progression sense is incredible to see. I absolutely loved having our working students this summer, meeting new students and their horses, and watching all of our clients get closer and closer to their goals.
Along with meeting so many wonderful people in 2018, we also welcomed a few new fur-babies. Allison found her heart horse, Zeus, in the beginning of the year. This opened the door for Annabelle and I to work together and spark my love for OTTBs. Though she’s been off of the track for quite some time, and Allison had put a TON of time and work into her… I absolutely adore her natural sensitivity and spice. We were able make our first appearance in the show ring last summer and I look forward to more to come.
And then, there’s Mic. We realized there was a need for helping OTTB’s by giving them a solid foundation and finding a second career for them. We looked for a ‘crazy’ horse that had good conformation and potential. This is when we found Mic. We couldn’t really tell much from his video as he was being trotted in hand with a lip chain. He had a pogo-stick trot, amped up on adrenaline. We thought he was cute and needed an experienced person, so he came to us June 27th, 2018.
When Mic got off of the trailer, Allison took him into his stall since he was technically supposed to be her project horse to restart. After he had a chance to stretch his legs and move into the arena, we quickly realized he was a dressage star in the making. His movement and cadence was unbelievable.
As he was floating around the arena, I realized it would be incredibly stupid to let this incredible horse go, and I told Allison I was stealing him from her. In that same breath, I also said, “Shit. This means I need to sell Fenway.”
The excitement for Mic was equal to the pain I felt having to let go of Fenway. Having Fenway for sale were the most brutal couple of month’s I’ve ever experienced. Through the tears, self doubt, questioning what the hell I was doing, we finally found Fenway his people. Two sisters who adore him, dressed him up as a Cheeseburger for halloween, and call him ‘fuzz-bucket’…. That’s honestly all I wanted for him. People that he was able to be funny with, and that would be funny back.
And then there is Fable… My first heart horse who has made me the person I am today. Valentines Day of 2018 Fable was granted his wish of being the only child, but as Miss Avery as his mother. Instead of saying I lost a family member, I’d like to say we gained Avery and Tina as part of our family. Fable will always be my guy. The goofball that taught me that absolutely NOTHING is impossible, and to ‘forget’ the haters. There’s nothing I wouldn’t do for that horse, and I am so grateful because I know Avery feels the same way about him.
Best Friends
Fable, Fenway, and our little Mira found their own humans that adore them. Through this process I’ve found I’m not cut out for horse sales, but I feel incredibly lucky I was able to find such amazing people to take care of these amazing horses we became so close to over the years.
2019 rolled around faster than I thought, but, here we are. This is the year I will graduate from Oakland University. 16 more weeks of being a full time college student, full time horse trainer, barn manager, body worker, farrier, personal trainer. I’m grateful to have so many hats to keep me afloat, but I’m also very excited to hang up my college student hat for good.
I typically try to go into the New Year with a gung-ho sort of bad ass mantra, but at this point all I can think of is “April 26th, 2019.” On April 26th, 2019, after 8 years of college, I am finally going to be a college graduate.
So, 2019… Until next time.